If someone flatters you, you are allowed to be happy just a while because of their cheerful attitude.

7'

When others criticize you, you can reasonably be upset a moment. But you can't be angry, because they always tell the truth.

11'

别人恭维你时，偷偷高兴一下就可以了，但不可当真，因为那十有八九是哄你的；

别人批评你时，稍稍不开心一下就可以了，但不可生气，因为那十有八九是真的。